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Walking the walk. 16-07-2010
Ok boys and girls this is just a quick little piece on "saying
no". We all know we have been in situations that put
us in a position of weakness or addiction, especially when
it comes to matters of lust and love. How we comprehend and
what actions we take regarding this weakness is what makes
the difference between a healthy relationship and a toxic
one. Any time you feel the need to justify, ...
1 Reacties, 62 Bezichtigingen,
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?? 04-07-2010
Iv been getting texts/calls from a girl who wants to meet
for sex only. Met her in a club and had some dinner a few days after.
Not sure if i should do it or not...
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guys 01-07-2010
ok so i got on the im last night for the first time and all the
guys started trying to talk to me sorry guys its me and my
bf and we r only looking for girls thanks for the interest
but not interested in guys i already have a man and that is
my bf and we dont wnt a three way with a dude. SORRY!!!
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no thanks 30-06-2010
how hard is it for you to date, the same person, for a time,
and every time sex come up, its always no thanks. when do
you say good bye.
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Whatever! 06-06-2010
I don't believe a lot of people understand
what the two words no thanks means. How many times does a
person need to say it? ...
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Watch it ! 21-05-2010
Your life can be changed in a matter of seconds by someone
who doesn't even know you yet. ...
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Credentials! 21-05-2010
Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human
being....
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How Many Times Does A Lady Have to Politely Say No? 14-05-2010
Before she can't just flat out be rude? Have you ever
been there?
My profile(check it out) is written to weed out the "undesireables."
Sometimes it works & sometimes it doesn't. There
always has to be one that thinks if he can just get you to say
yes to meeting him he can sweet talk you into giving up some
of that sweet stuff. You know the one I'm talking about...
He writes & ...
8 Reacties, 172 Bezichtigingen,
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Worry ! 12-05-2010
Most of the stuff people worry about ain't never
gonna happen anyway. ...
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Why do people do that? 02-05-2010
I need a little perspective on why people will start chatting
and emailing you on here and you seem to get along well ...
then you agree to exchange pics and then "POOF"
once the woman gets your pic they disappear without a word.
I mean I can understand that they get the pic and see that
one is not their type ... but is it really all that hard to
just say that so there is closure? Why do people ...
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Wondering ! 29-04-2010
Sometimes saying, "No thanks, " will have
you wondering later on if you were right, and sometimes
you'll find out later on from an event, that you made
a great decision in saying, "No thanks!" ...
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Bi/Gay won't leave you alone? 11-04-2010
Wow I have this issue where I can't get bi/gay guys in
my area to stop messaging me about getting some secret head...anyone
else have these issues?
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Why? 05-04-2010
So this one goes 2 ways. Why do single ladies rule out out
young guys on average and... Why why why why why do gays guys
think that straight guys want oral? lmao.
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Have fun but be careful 21-03-2010
Coming out of high school I had only had sex a couple of times
and at that time I really didn't care for it. How thangs
have changed. But the first time I considered having sex
with someone that wasn't my boyfriend was with a guy
we will call bob. The first time I saw him I got wet and I wanted
him so bad. I would lay in my bed at night and cum all over my
fingers thinking about him kissing ...
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strippers 14-03-2010
male half
it's been years since i've been but the best way
i've found to get rid of strippers who want to table
dance for you is to have a line ready. mine have been, "sorry, you look too much like my wife."
and "sorry, i'm saving all my money for the massage
parlor afterwards".
any other good one liners? have some fun.
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be nice!...or not 27-02-2010
a girl like you, but you are not attracted to her or the fact
that she dropped out of high school....so instead of telling
her that - you just say " I don't want a relationship
at this time". but she is relentless, wanting to hang
out as friends. to be blunt, she just isnt getting it. so,
maybe not wanting to hurt someones feelings isnt a safe
outlet...?
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Is chivalry still out there? 27-02-2010
I would hope politeness is still alive and well in today's
swinging lifestyle..I mean...So many unanswered e-mails...just
makes ya wonder how some people are being brought up.? It's
not hard to reply to a nice email someone took the time to
write. At least this is our take on it. What do you think?
We dont respond to nasty emails...or one liners....But
a well thought out email goes a long way to ...
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Easier for Women to Say No? 22-02-2010
Is it easier for a woman to say "No thanks" then
a man?
When meeting for the first coffee, I am not always interested
in following through. But I also feel like I can't say
no at that point. I have, and it wasn't well received
even though I did try to be gentle.
I am wondering if the male stereotype comes into play: men
don't say no to sex.
Women are propositioned more ...
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no thank you 11-01-2010
Hey everyone it's ok to say no thank you. When you do
people should respect that.
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when saying no thanks politely doesn't go over 08-01-2010
sometimes it seems like i am very careful to pick my wording
in my response, and i am still treated very rudely to someone
i didn't pursue in the first place. i try to say things
that won't hurt any feelings, stay respectful, and
still are firm that i am not interested. i am wondering what
everyone else does when this doesn't seem to do the
trick and now some rude person won't leave me alone.
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Say 'no thanks' the right way 07-01-2010
Overview: It's a good practice to let job candidates
know when they haven't gotten the job. Use this sample
thanks-but-no-thanks letter to build goodwill with people
who may be a better match for future positions.
One of the least pleasant aspects of the hiring process
is conveying to candidates your decision to pass them over.
But if you've decided to eliminate someone from contention ...
5 Reacties, 57 Bezichtigingen,
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I'm not sure how to say it but.... "No Thanks" 18-12-2009
Recently, I received an invitation to a 'party'
that included men and women having fun, as we do. The invitation
was amazing as it had me down as one of the one kinda-single
guys to be there.
My arousal peaked as well as my normal paranoias of being
discreet. I emailed back that I would be interested and
a day later received the location and address. It also included
the caveat that i ...
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Is it better to ignore 18-12-2009
I was just wondering how many people out there, have expressed
intrest in someone, who wrote, only to be ignored by the
person.Isn't it more polite to kindly say your not
intrested, then to ignore the person and leave them hanging?
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Big Girls 10-12-2009
I'm looking for a kind way to walk away from big girls
on this site without hurting anyone's feelings. Can
someone please offer some advice.
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being polite but firm 09-12-2009
Well having read a few of the articles - it seems we're
all more or less on the same frequency as it were.
Ive had quite a few occasions in the past where despite what
my profile says - ie in a relationship and not looking to
play, a few folks have been rather insistent - Ive found
it an exercise in politeness but also firmness.
There do seem to be quite a few people for whom no ...
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How do you tell a couple no thanks after meeting them? 05-12-2009
Weve not had to experience this yet because all the couples
we played with were great, but how do you tell a couple no
after meeting up with them and it's not what you want?
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I know, we've all encountered someone who... 29-11-2009
... can't take a hint, a direct "no thanks",
or even sometimes a baseball bat over the head to understand
that you're not interested. Especially the ones that are standard members and can't
read profiles, but still can't grasp it when you describe
your situation/desires and keep pressing to meet you.
Someone needs to design hardware so you can send an electric
shock back to someone who ...
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respect for the individual 04-11-2009
Lets prove some of these nay Sayers wrong and show that we
can be grown ups' and get together for real hook ups.Life's
too short for lead on's and game playing.Just be true
to others and leave the mind games away from this place.Know
one would want to be treated like that, what makes it okay
for you to do it to others.Just be yourself, life's
too short!!
1 Reacties, 29 Bezichtigingen,
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when just saying no isnt enough... 01-11-2009
Guy: I would go to the end of the world for you! Girl: Yea but would you stay there?
Man:is this seat empty?
Woman:yes and this one will be too if you sit down!
Man:your bodys like a temple
Woman:sorry no sevice today.
Him: your place or mine
You: both, you go to yours, and i will go to mine
Sleazy Guy o you come here often? ...
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Taking a break 25-10-2009
It came suddenly I'm sure for my husband but one night,
I asked him how he would feel about suspending our HotSwinger.nl Hot Swinger - Hot Swingers Dating account
temporarily. He asked why...my reply....I just want to
take a break. It seemed like so much pressure to have sex
with EVERYONE and that is NOT who I am or he is for that matter.
I wanted to slow down and get back to us and remember what
it was to feel passion instead of just ...
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